You need not be alarmed because these are times gone by. You will not be required or expected to do service but her family would of course like to meet you.
However, if your girlfriend did not tell her parents or family about you, be prepared for the worst. Her father or brothers may wave a shining sword under your nose, chase you out of the house or loosen the dogs (and this is not impossible) by your sudden appearance! In truth, they feel threatened that you are going to whisk off a member of their family away.
Scoolgirls Photo shoot