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Here's a really good reason why sometimes you should hold your tongue, especially if you have a good grasp of the Thai language. And, even more so - if you happen to be with a group of Thai girls who're speaking in hush hush tones while slipping cute looks your way.

Yes, it does happen. The talking about you, that is. As a western guy in Thailand you'll stand out like a sore thumb no matter what you do and where you go. The simple fact that you're 'different' - rewards you with a near celebrity status in the eyes of many Thai folks (Thai women too). Even more so when you're way out of the big cities!

So... you might want to stay innocent about your Thai fluency for a little bit - and just listen in as the conversation bounces around you in all directions. Of course if you've ever tried to 'not listen' to someone talking, you'll know it's near impossible. But by being quiet amazing things can happen. Let me explain.

Listen quietly and you'll find the Thai girls will be curious about you... Everything from what you look like, to where you come from, to how old you are, and why you're there! Yep... The whole kitchen sink. Rest assured, you don't need to jump into the conversation - in a few short minutes they'll hit you with an English speaking question, I guarantee it!

Right then you have a few fun options to play with. You can either answer in English... Or boom, wait until the Thai girls have given English a shot then hit them with your best Thai. It'll open up a whole new world for you. Trust me on this one.